February 5, 2025

The 5 Developmental Milestones Every Parent Should Know

Posted February 5, 2025

As parents and caregivers, watching your child grow and thrive is one of life’s greatest joys. However, understanding their developmental milestones can often feel overwhelming. At Kids On The Move (KOTM), we believe that knowledge is power, and our goal is to equip you with the tools to support your child through every stage of their growth. 

Developmental milestones are markers that signify your child’s progress in five critical areas of development. By tracking these, you can identify areas where your child is excelling or may need extra support. Below, we’ll explore the five key developmental milestones and what they mean for your child’s learning and growth.

Cognitive Development: Learning, Thinking, and Problem-Solving 

Cognitive development refers to your child’s ability to process information, think critically, and solve problems. From birth, children are continuously learning about the world around them by observing, imitating, and experimenting. 

Key Milestones to Look For 

  • 6 months: Reaching for and exploring objects. 
  • 12 months: Using trial and error to solve simple problems, like figuring out how to retrieve a toy. 
  • 24 months: Recognizing and naming familiar objects and people. 

How to Encourage Development 

  • Offer toys that require problem-solving, such as shape sorters or stacking blocks. 
  • Narrate your daily activities to help your child better understand their environment. 

Social and Emotional Development: Building Relationships and Managing Emotions 

This developmental area involves how your child interacts with others and manages their own emotions. Social and emotional skills are essential for building relationships and navigating the world with confidence. 

Key Milestones to Look For 

  • 6 months: Smiling and responding to caregivers’ facial expressions. 
  • 12 months: Displaying separation anxiety and forming strong attachments. 
  • 36 months: Showing empathy, such as comforting a friend who is upset. 

How to Encourage Development 

  • Provide opportunities for social interaction, such as playdates or family gatherings. 
  • Model healthy emotional responses to situations to teach emotional regulation. 

Communication and Language Development: Understanding and Expressing Ideas 

Language development involves both receptive language (understanding words) and expressive language (using words). It’s often one of the most exciting areas of growth for young children! 

Key Milestones to Look For 

  • 6 months: Responding to sounds and recognizing their name. 
  • 12 months: Saying their first words. 
  • 24 months: Using two-word phrases like “want cookie.” 

How to Encourage Development 

  • Read to your child daily, even if it’s for just a few minutes. 
  • Use songs and rhymes to build vocabulary in a fun and engaging way. 

Physical Development: Fine and Gross Motor Skills 

Physical development encompasses your child’s ability to move and control their muscles. This includes gross motor skills (large movements like crawling or walking) and fine motor skills (smaller movements like grasping objects). 

Key Milestones to Look For 

  • 6 months: Rolling over and grasping objects. 
  • 12 months: Pulling to stand and taking their first steps. 
  • 36 months: Running, jumping, and drawing simple shapes. 

How to Encourage Development 

  • Provide safe spaces for your child to crawl, climb, and explore. 
  • Offer toys that promote hand-eye coordination, such as crayons or stacking rings. 

Self-Help and Adaptive Skills: Gaining Independence 

Self-help skills include everyday tasks like feeding, dressing, and using the bathroom. These milestones are critical for helping your child develop independence and confidence in daily life. 

Key Milestones to Look For 

  • 12 months: Holding a cup and beginning to self-feed. 
  • 24 months: Attempting to dress themselves with some assistance. 
  • 36 months: Using utensils and starting potty training. 

How to Encourage Development 

  • Allow your child to attempt tasks independently, even if it takes longer to complete them. 
  • Celebrate small victories to help build confidence and perseverance. 

What If My Child Isn’t Meeting Milestones? 

It’s important to remember that every child is unique, and some may reach milestones at their own pace. However, if you’re concerned about developmental delays, early intervention can make a significant difference. 

At Kids On The Move (KOTM), we specialize in identifying and addressing developmental challenges. Through tailored programs, we focus on your child’s individual needs to help them achieve their full potential. 

By understanding these five developmental milestones, you’re taking an essential step in becoming your child’s biggest advocate. 

Contact Us Today 

If you have questions or concerns about your child’s development, don’t hesitate to reach out to us at Kids On The Move. Together, we can guide your child toward reaching their fullest potential. 

Mat Dastrup, CFO

Mat Datstrop, Chief Financial Officer at KOTM, truly embodies a blend of expertise and visionary leadership. Joining Kids on the Move in September 2019, Mat brought a rich history of accomplishments, having served as CFO for manufacturing and software companies. His successful track record includes starting and selling three businesses, showcasing his entrepreneurial spirit and strategic insight. As a licensed CPA and a Six Sigma Black Belt, Mat’s skill set is uniquely suited to driving innovation and accuracy within financial processes. His passion for integrating technology and developing robust accounting systems positions KOTM for long-term success. In his role, Mat is deeply dedicated to creating sustainable impacts that will echo throughout KOTM for decades. His presence in the organization is marked by a steadfast commitment to fostering an environment of lasting change, ensuring families benefit from his transformative work well into the future.

Ryan Erickson, COO

Ryan Erickson, the Chief Operating Officer of KOTM, brings a wealth of experience and a passionate commitment to nurturing innovation and growth. With over two decades spent as a thought leader and innovator in executive leadership roles across the medical, technical consulting, and information technology sectors, Ryan’s expertise is unparalleled. His dedication to mentoring entrepreneurs and CEOs on transforming ideas into reality speaks to his compassionate nature and deep-seated commitment to growth. Ryan views his role at KOTM as a unique opportunity to guide the organization into its next 40 years, shaping a resilient and forward-thinking future. His diverse skill set enables KOTM to not only meet current challenges with agility but also to strategically position itself for sustainable development and lasting impact. Under Ryan’s committed leadership, KOTM continues to inspire hope and innovation, reinforcing its status as a beacon of support and transformation for families everywhere.

Rachelle Rutherford, CEO

Rutherford is the strategic visionary and Chief Executive Officer of Kids on the Move (KOTM). A multifaceted and sophisticated businesswoman, she has led the trailblazing multimillion-dollar non-profit in its commitment to providing essential and comprehensive support, education, and therapies for children with delays and disabilities.  Rutherford has now spent 20 years in executive leadership roles within the telecommunications, genealogy, real estate, health care services, and education industries. Her notable contributions lie in her perseverance to find impossible and impactful solutions. Rutherford is skilled at reverse-engineering goals by mapping out exactly what is required for a successful outcome.

To help raise $150M to expand KOTM’s support services and establish a state-of-the-art center, Rutherford has partnered with Forbes Books to author and publish Chasing The Impossible, a captivating exposé delving into Kids on the Move’s transformative work. With it, she uncovers the compelling stories of resilience and hope from children, families, doctors, and community members who tenaciously pushed forward when faced with impossible odds or challenges.

Her profound understanding of what it takes to overcome the impossible stems from her own journey as a survivor of abuse and trauma, which has shaped her philanthropic missions, her intuitive nature, and her steadfast leadership. As a CEO, mom, speaker, and philanthropist, Rutherford believes discipline is one of the highest forms of self-love, consistently putting in the necessary work every single day to provide impactful solutions for others, promote a balanced and holistic lifestyle, and create opportunities for continuous growth and empowerment around the world.