April 16, 2026

Early Signs of Autism in Children: What Parents Should Know

Posted April 16, 2026

 

Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) affects how children communicate, interact, and experience the world around them. For many parents, the first signs can be subtle. It may be a delayed word, limited eye contact, or difficulty with transitions.

Recognizing early signs of autism does not mean something is wrong with your child. It means you are paying attention. And paying attention early creates opportunities for support that can make a meaningful difference.

At Kids on the Move, we work with families every day who are asking the same question:

Should I be concerned about my child’s development?

This guide can help you know what to watch for and what steps to take next.

How Common Is Autism?

According to the most recent data from the CDC’s Autism and Developmental Disabilities Monitoring Network, about 1 in 31 children in the United States is identified with autism spectrum disorder.

Additional findings include:

  • About 1 in 20 boys are diagnosed with autism
  • About 1 in 70 girls are diagnosed
  • Identification is happening earlier than ever before
  • More children are being evaluated before age four

These numbers reflect improved awareness and screening, not simply an increase in autism itself.

What matters most for families is this:

Earlier identification leads to earlier support.

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Early Signs of Autism in Toddlers (Ages 12–36 Months)

Autism can look different in every child. Still, there are common patterns parents often notice first in communication, interaction, and behavior.

Some early signs include:

Social communication differences

Your child may:

  • make limited eye contact
  • not respond consistently to their name
  • show little interest in sharing toys or experiences
  • have delayed speech development
  • repeat words or phrases frequently
  • use fewer gestures like pointing or waving

These are often the first indicators parents recognize.

Repetitive behaviors or strong routines

You may notice:

  • lining up toys repeatedly
  • intense focus on certain objects or topics
  • hand-flapping, rocking, or spinning
  • strong reactions when routines change

These behaviors can be part of how a child makes sense of their environment.

Sensory differences

Some children with autism:

  • react strongly to sound or light
  • avoid certain textures
  • seek movement frequently
  • show unusual eating or sleeping patterns

Sensory processing differences are common and often misunderstood early on.

 

 

 

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Signs of Autism in Preschool-Aged Children (Ages 3–6)

As children grow and enter preschool or childcare settings, developmental differences may become easier to recognize.

Parents and teachers may notice:

  • difficulty making or keeping friends
  • challenges with back-and-forth conversation
  • trouble understanding emotions
  • distress with unexpected changes
  • strong interest in specific topics

This stage is often when families first hear the recommendation:

“We suggest a developmental evaluation.”

That recommendation can feel overwhelming. But it is also an important opportunity.

When Should You Seek an Autism Evaluation?

The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends autism screening at:

  • 18 months
  • 24 months

However, parents do not need to wait for a scheduled screening.

If something feels different about your child’s development, it is appropriate to ask questions at any age.

An autism diagnostic evaluation can:

  • confirm whether autism is present
  • rule autism out
  • identify developmental strengths
  • guide therapy recommendations
  • help families access services sooner

Early answers help families make confident decisions.

Why Early Autism Diagnosis Matters

Research consistently shows that children who receive support earlier:

  • build communication skills faster
  • develop stronger independence
  • improve social connection
  • transition more successfully into school settings

Early support does not change who a child is.

It strengthens how they engage with the world.

Autism Diagnostic Evaluations at Kids on the Move

Kids on the Move provides comprehensive autism-focused diagnostic evaluations for children ages 2–6 when concerns are identified by a pediatrician or early intervention provider.

These evaluations help families understand:

  • whether autism spectrum disorder is present
  • what next steps are recommended
  • which services may support their child best

Most importantly, families leave with clarity.

And clarity creates momentum.

Trust Your Instincts as a Parent

Many parents say they noticed early differences before anyone else did.

If you are wondering whether your child may benefit from an evaluation, you are not alone in asking that question.

Support begins with information.

And information leads to action.

Take the Next Step

If you are concerned about your child’s development, you can begin the process today.

Apply for an Autism-Focused Diagnostic Evaluation at Kids on the Move and connect with a team that understands how to walk alongside families with clarity and care.

Early answers lead to early support.

And every child deserves the opportunity to keep moving forward.

Mat Dastrup, CFO

Mat Datstrop, Chief Financial Officer at KOTM, truly embodies a blend of expertise and visionary leadership. Joining Kids on the Move in September 2019, Mat brought a rich history of accomplishments, having served as CFO for manufacturing and software companies. His successful track record includes starting and selling three businesses, showcasing his entrepreneurial spirit and strategic insight. As a licensed CPA and a Six Sigma Black Belt, Mat’s skill set is uniquely suited to driving innovation and accuracy within financial processes. His passion for integrating technology and developing robust accounting systems positions KOTM for long-term success. In his role, Mat is deeply dedicated to creating sustainable impacts that will echo throughout KOTM for decades. His presence in the organization is marked by a steadfast commitment to fostering an environment of lasting change, ensuring families benefit from his transformative work well into the future.

Ryan Erickson, COO

Ryan Erickson, the Chief Operating Officer of KOTM, brings extensive experience and a passionate commitment to nurturing innovation and growth. With over two decades spent as a thought leader and innovator across leadership roles in the medical, software start-ups, technical consulting, and information technology sectors, he has steered successful technology companies to new heights.

Ryan’s expertise is unparalleled. His dedication to mentoring entrepreneurs and CEOs in transforming ideas into reality speaks to his compassionate nature and deep-seated commitment to growth. Serving on several software and technical company boards, Ryan consistently helps these companies reach new heights.

At KOTM, Ryan is uniquely positioned to guide the organization into its next 40 years. His diverse skill set enables KOTM to not only meet current challenges with agility but also to strategically position itself for future growth under his committed leadership. Ryan continues to inspire hope and innovation, reinforcing KOTM’s status as a beacon of support and transformation for families everywhere.

Rachelle Rutherford, CEO

Rutherford is the strategic visionary and Chief Executive Officer of Kids on the Move (KOTM). A multifaceted and sophisticated businesswoman, she has led the trailblazing multimillion-dollar non-profit in its commitment to providing essential and comprehensive support, education, and therapies for children with delays and disabilities.  Rutherford has now spent 20 years in executive leadership roles within the telecommunications, genealogy, real estate, health care services, and education industries. Her notable contributions lie in her perseverance to find impossible and impactful solutions. Rutherford is skilled at reverse-engineering goals by mapping out exactly what is required for a successful outcome.

To help raise $150M to expand KOTM’s support services and establish a state-of-the-art center, Rutherford has partnered with Forbes Books to author and publish Chasing The Impossible, a captivating exposé delving into Kids on the Move’s transformative work. With it, she uncovers the compelling stories of resilience and hope from children, families, doctors, and community members who tenaciously pushed forward when faced with impossible odds or challenges.

Her profound understanding of what it takes to overcome the impossible stems from her own journey as a survivor of abuse and trauma, which has shaped her philanthropic missions, her intuitive nature, and her steadfast leadership. As a CEO, mom, speaker, and philanthropist, Rutherford believes discipline is one of the highest forms of self-love, consistently putting in the necessary work every single day to provide impactful solutions for others, promote a balanced and holistic lifestyle, and create opportunities for continuous growth and empowerment around the world.